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'Why do we shout in anger?

A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.'
'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.
Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'
Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...'
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

MORAL: When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.
There are two ways of being United -
By being frozen together or being melted together.
It is better to be melted in love than to be frozen in indifference!!!!!

5 Ways To Be Happy in Recession

Amid the torrent of academic studies coming out on the subject of happiness, one finding remains consistent and, well, unsurprising: We are happier in flush times than in down periods. And as a result of experiencing the deepest recession in decades, we are now a bunch of really unhappy campers.
Research from the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania shows that happiness measures go up and down with business cycles. A Reuters/Zogby poll in December found that people's moods declined compared with November, with Americans reporting heightened concerns about job security and the direction of the country.
Really? No kidding. One might reasonably wonder why we need pollsters and Ph.D.s to tell us something so bleeding obvious. After all, performer Sophie Tucker reached a similar conclusion decades ago when she said, "I've been rich, and I've been poor. Believe me, honey, rich is better."
But the research turns out to be much more complicated than a simple correlation between money and happiness. It shows that our happiness may depend more on our relative wealth—how much money we have compared with our neighbors—than on any absolute scale. Researchers have also found that while richer countries are happier than poorer ones, they don't necessarily get happier over time as they accumulate more wealth. (One possible reason is that expectations rise with incomes.) And while researchers once believed that after our basic needs are met, money matters less, they have now found it appears to continue adding to happiness. Other research indicates that excess materialism, on the other hand, can make us unhappy. ("Mo' money, mo' problems," as Notorious B.I.G. put it.) So both extremes can be emotionally taxing.
Just how money affects happiness is under debate. Do we really love our 50-inch television, or do we just like that we can afford it? Has the recession made us anxious over the prospect of losing our jobs, or are we down about the losses in our 401(k)'s? What's really bringing us down? "A simple way of thinking about an economic downturn is 'We all can buy less stuff,' " says Justin Wolfers, associate professor of business and public policy at Wharton. "I think a bigger, more important part of the question is that work has a very central role in our lives. . . . When people are without work, they are much less happy, and not just because they can buy fewer iPods but because they value it for its own sake," says Wolfers.
Those who find themselves down on their luck can call on the strategies developed by a cadre of happiness professionals. Here are five ways to boost your happiness right now:
1) Take care of yourself: Get enough sleep, exercise, and nutrition. Gretchen Rubin, creator of the Happiness Project blog and author of the forthcoming book by the same name, has studied ancient texts as well as recent research on her quest to become happier. The first step, she says, is to take care of your own body by getting enough sleep, exercise, and nutrition.
2) Become more charitable. "If you're feeling impoverished . . . a way to counteract that feeling is to do something generous." It's a way of convincing yourself that you have something to give. Signing up to be an organ donor or giving blood are two easy (and free) options. People also feel happier amid an atmosphere of growth. If your salary is frozen, then learning Photoshop or building a garden can generate a feeling of personal growth.
3) Spend more time and money on enjoyable activities, from traveling to cooking to studying Mandarin, suggests M.P. Dunleavey, author of Money Can Buy Happiness. Research shows that people are at their most satisfied when they feel engaged and challenged.
4) Invest in relationships. - investing in relationships is another positive influence on happiness levels. Buying a train ticket to visit a friend or putting $30 into a "romantic weekend away with hubby" fund can be valuable investments in your well-being.
5) Focus on what you're grateful for. Sonja Lyubomirsky, professor of psychology at the University of California–Riverside and author of The How of Happiness: A Scientific Approach to Getting the Life You Want, suggests cultivating a sense of appreciation through something like a gratitude journal, where you write down three to five things for which you are thankful. If you lost your job, think of other dreams that have come true, such as living in the city you want or marrying the right partner. It's not trivializing what's happening but trying not to focus on it all the time.
While the advice might sound obvious, it's also supported by empirical research—so we know it really works. But that Fab Four didn't need empirical research: "I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love."

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

IF YOU THINK YOU are beaten;
you are;
If you think you dare not
you don't,
If you'd like to win,but think
you can't,
its almost a cinch you won't
If you think you will lose ,
you're lost,
For out in the world we find...
SUCCESS BEGINS WITH
a fellows will;
its all in a state of mind.
Life's battles don't always go
to the stronger or faster man;
But sooner or later
the man who wins
IS THE ONE WHO THINKS HE CAN !

A GOOD ONE!!!!!!!

A family in Gujarat was puzzled when the coffin of their dead mother (Ba)
arrived from the US .
It was sent by one of the daughters.



The dead body was very tightly squeezed inside the coffin, with no space left in
it when they opened the lid; they found a letter on top addressed to her brothers and sisters:



Dear Chandrakantbhai, Arvindbhai, Smitaben and Varsha ,



I am sending Ba's body to you, since it was her wish that she should be cremated
in the compound of our ancestral home in GUJARAT .



Sorry, I could not come along as all of my paid leave is consumed.



You will find inside the coffin, under Ba's body, cans of cheese, 10 packets of
Tobler chocolates and 8 packets of Badam (peanuts).
please divide these among all of you.



On Ba's feet you will find a new pair of Reebok shoes (size 10) for Mohan. There
are also 2 pairs of shoes for Radha's and Lakshmi's sons.
Hope the sizes are correct.



Ba is wearing 6 American T-Shirts. The large size is for Mohan.




Just distribute the rest among yourselves.




The 2 new Jeans that Ba is wearing are for the boys.



The Swiss watch that Reema wanted is on Ba's left wrist. Shanta masi, Ba is
wearing the necklace, earrings and ring that you asked for.
Please take them off her.



The 6 white cotton socks that Ba is wearing must be divided among my nephews.



Please distribute all these fairly.
Love Smita.



PS : If anything more required let me know soon as Bapuji is also not feeling
too well now a days.

6 Truths of Life

1. You cannot touch all your top teeth with your tongue.

2. All idiots, after reading the first truth, will try it.

3. And discover that The first truth is a lie.

4. You're smiling now because you're an idiot.

5. You soon will forward this to another idiot.

6. There's still a stupid smile on your face.

I apologize about this .

I'm an idiot and I needed company ...

JAANE KYON ????????

Jaane kyon log kaam karte hain
jaane kyon woh office main marte hain
jaane kyon jaane kyon
jaane kyon jaane kyon jaane kyon

Kaam main sochiye to bus gum hai
kaam main jo zulam ho woh kam hai
kaam par sar jhukana padta hai
dukh main bhi muskurana padta hai
zehar kyun zindagi main bharte hain
jaane kyon log kaam karte hain
jaane kyon jaane kyon
jaane kyon jaane kyon jaane kyon

Kaam bin jeene mein rakha kya hai
kaam jiso nahin woh kadka hai
kaam sau ki note laata hai
kaam hi pet bhar khilata hai
log mar mar ke kaam karte hain
jaane kyon khush rehte darte hain
jaane kyon jaane kyon
jaane kyon jaane kyon jaane kyon

kaam ek badi musibat hai
kaam har kisi ki zaroorat hai
hoooo kaam pe yeh jhooth hai sachche
arre kaam pe sab jhooth hai achche
hoooo aage kya khak log badte hain
ek hi post par wo sadte hai
jaane kyon jaane kyon
jaane kyon jaane kyon jaane kyon

kaam toh aise hi sab karte hai
jaane kyon aap hi bigarte hai
jaane kyoooon jaane kyon
jaane kyon jaane kyon jaane kyon...


Socho ??????

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